I Called Him Necktie

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Year: 
2015
Type: 
Public: 
Publisher: 
New Vessel Press
Year of publication: 
2014
Pages: 
133
Moral assessment: 
Type: Literature
Nothing inappropriate.
Some morally inappropriate content.
Contains significant sections contrary to faith or morals.
Contains some lurid passages, or presents a general ideological framework that could confuse those without much Christian formation.
Contains several lurid passages, or presents an ideological framework that is contrary or foreign to Christian values.
Explicitly contradicts Catholic faith or morals, or is directed against the Church and its institutions.
Literary quality: 
Recommendable: 
Transmits values: 
Sexual content: 
Violent content: 
Vulgar or obscene language: 
Ideas that contradict Church teaching: 
The rating of the different categories comes from the opinion of Delibris' collaborators

It tells the story of the unexpected encounter between two very different men who nevertheless share feelings of isolation and emotional wounds. One is Hiro, a young Japanese hikikomori who has lived confined to his room for years, cut off from the world out of fear, shame, or pain. The other is a middle-aged salaryman with a very structured lifestyle, a man older than Hiro who also carries internal burdens he has never managed to share, such as his recent dismissal from work, his dissatisfaction, and his inability to acknowledge certain truths before his family.

The premise is simple: Hiro overcomes his fear just enough to go outside one day and sit on a park bench, where he meets the other man. They begin to see each other there regularly; at first without many words, then sharing fragments of life, memories, guilt, silences, and hopes. It is a brief and sensitive story, with short or fragmented chapters, almost inner monologues from the characters that gradually reveal what makes them human: fears, loneliness, and the desire to be understood.

The author, who is Austrian, has a delicate and poetic voice. She stirs emotions without overwhelming. The book leans toward compassion, friendship, recognition of the other, and the healing power of both words and silence.

Author: M NH, Mexico
Update on: Nov 2025

Other review

Moral Assessment: 

A novel set in Japan. The main character and narrator of the book is a twenty-year-old young man who spends several consecutive months shut in his room, fleeing from himself, his traumas, his thoughts, his depression, and his disgust toward society.

But when he meets an unemployed man in a park, he begins to understand something about other people and to come out of himself.

The book is a harsh journey through a society where only success and appearances matter, and where there is no room for people with problems or for generous feelings.

Author: Jorge Gaspar, Portugal, 2017